Infidelity is one of the menaces responsible for destroying marriages and relationships in our society today.
So many smooth-running homes have crashed as a result of this problem.
Some women are well known for being interested in affairs with married men.
They are notoriously referred to as “side-chicks.”
It has been discovered that these women are sometimes closely associated with the wife of the cheating husband or the husband.
Perhaps you have noticed your friend, colleague, or neighbour acting extremely friendly towards your husband.
It could be because she finds your husband fascinating and she is crushing on him.
You might have discovered that there’s a friend or colleague your husband has and wouldn’t stop talking about.
Probably she has been very nice to your husband and they are getting closer by the day.
While it is not a good thing to be paranoid, it is important to pay attention to details and not just overlook things.
Let me also state that there’s nothing honourable about suspecting every woman who comes close to your husband as wanting to have an affair with him.
Be sure you are not the one overthinking things.
Below are some signs to look out for to know a woman is crushing on your husband;
10 Signs A Woman Is Crushing On Your Husband
1. She feels comfortable being around your husband
When you notice any woman, your friend, or his friend who always wants to be in his company, she may be crushing on him.
Women always want to be in the company of the men they are crushing on.
If the fact that he is married doesn’t deter her from wanting to be with him, then watch it.
It may be a sign that this woman is desperately in need of your husband.
Also, if your husband is always talking about being with a particular female friend physically or over the phone, it’s a sign not to be ignored.
It needs to be nipped in the bud before it becomes a full-blown affair.
2. She’s always praising him
If you have a friend, neighbour, or colleague that is so obsessed with commenting on or praising your husband, this could be a sign that she is crushing on him.
If most of the time she compliments his dress sense, the way he talks, his acumen, and his intelligence.
She’s been drawn to your husband because of these virtues she observed in him.
She is definitely tripping.
3. She compares him to her husband
Any woman who constantly compares the things her husband does for her vis a vis the ones your husband does for you, while elevating your husband above hers, may be eyeing your husband.
A woman in love will make bold boasts about her lover.
The comparison is an indication that she wishes in her heart that she’s the one your husband married and not you.
She craves to be occupying the position you occupy, and she may be crushing on your husband.
4. She draws the attention of your man to herself
Whatever dress she puts on, she wants your husband to look at her and give his compliment.
When she talks, she wants him to listen.
She always wants him to take notice of her appearance.
Any woman that is close to you and is so preoccupied with getting the attention of your husband is giving indication that she is interested in sharing him with you.
Be on guard to avoid a stories that touches the heart.
5. She touches him romantically
The lightest of touches, the lingering hugs and frequent shoulder taps are signs you shouldn’t ignore.
Because she’s crushing on your husband, she makes every effort to make sure she touches him.
She would always crave to feel his body, using that to lure him into getting interested in her.
She might appear to mean no harm but she is really up to no good.
6. Laughs at everything your husband says
To her, your husband is the funniest person she has ever met.
She laughs at everything he says even when there’s nothing funny about it.
She is always laughing heartily and would always look forward to more of his “jokes”.
Interestingly, you don’t find any of the things he says funny and you can’t understand why another woman sees your husband as a humorous man.
If you observe this, it shows this woman is crushing on your husband.
7. She makes him her confidant
Your husband is the only person she confides in.
She feels comfortable telling him secrets and sharing deep emotional thoughts with him.
He becomes the shoulder she can cry on.
She makes him feel like a hero and is very needy when he is concerned.
It is a booby trap, she is crushing on him and only trying to draw him to her.
8. She oftentimes demands his assistance
One of the signs a woman is interested in your husband is that she is always calling him to come and help him do stuff.
She constantly plays the “damsel in distress” card, and always needs him to rescue her.
if they are friends, she may also ask him to come to drive her down to the supermarket to buy things or help her to loosen the wheel of her car.
She might deliberately call on him to come help carry a heavy load.
Meanwhile, these are things she could do or employ the services of other people to do for her.
It is a sign you shouldn’t ignore.
9. She sends him erotic late-night messages
It starts with a seemingly harmless “Thank you for being there for me” texts in the night to more sexually expressive messages.
She does this deliberately to arouse him.
She knows that doing this at that odd hour would make him think about being intimate with her.
This is one of the tactics a woman that is interested in your husband will use.
10. She makes eye contact with him
Maintaining eye contact is important during conversations.
But when a woman is crushing on your husband, she makes eye contact with sexual suggestions when talking to your him.
The eyes carry the deepest messages where feelings are concerned and she will give him looks that communicate her feelings.
As a wife, you need to be careful and sensitive to these signs.
You might need to have a conversation with your husband if you feel he is being oblivious to the “green light” she is giving him and needs to exercise more caution.