There are certain things that make a woman attractive.
Sometimes it’s how they walk, and sometimes it’s how they laugh.
What makes a woman truly attractive, though, is confidence.
And with all the pressures we face from society and media, it can be hard to cultivate self-confidence.
But there are small ways you can increase your confidence – and your attractiveness – by changing how you think about yourself.
In this post, I’ll share my top nine habits of truly attractive women – habits that you can start today!
9 Habits of Attractive Women
1. They have a good sense of humor
A good sense of humor is attractive in both men and women.
You don’t have to be the loudest one in the room, but you should be able to make a joke or two that makes people laugh.
A good sense of humor is a great way to attract people because it makes you more fun to be around.
It shows that you’re not taking yourself too seriously (which is attractive) and that you can laugh at yourself when necessary.
A woman who can laugh at herself and make fun of herself is attractive because it shows that she’s comfortable in her own skin, a quality that makes her endearing to everyone who comes across her.
If a woman is afraid to be silly and make mistakes, that’s a clear sign of insecurity.
But a woman who can make fun of herself, others, or things but does so in a light-hearted way that isn’t cruel or mean-spirited will be much more attractive than one who takes everything too seriously.
2. They exude positivity
Attractive women are positive.
They possess a positive attitude and have a positive outlook on life.
They’re optimistic, cheerful, and happy.
They don’t easily get discouraged or pessimistic; they’re not cynical or jaded; they aren’t negative.
This is why people love being around them; because they exude positive vibes.
It doesn’t mean they have it all or have a perfect life, but they choose to be positive despite their situation.
If you have a negative attitude, other people will be turned off by it and won’t want to be around you as much.
You’ll agree that when you’re around people who are negative all the time, you tend to become negative yourself.
And if you struggle with negative thoughts, it’ll get worse.
So try to stay positive and focus on the good things in life instead of worrying about all the bad stuff that happens every day if you want to be an irresistible person.
3. They are confident
Confidence is one of the most attractive traits a woman can have.
It’s not about being arrogant but rather a sense of self-assurance and belief in your abilities.
When we think of someone who’s attractive, we often think of a woman who is confident, who walks into a room and knows that she belongs there.
This isn’t to say that attractive women don’t ever doubt themselves.
But they also take action to overcome their doubts and move forward.
They know who they are and what they want from life and relationships.
They’re not afraid to be themselves and make their own rules, even if it’s something as small as how they wear their hair or their style.
Confidence is a skill that can be learned.
Every person has the capacity to be confident, but it takes work and dedication to get there.
Confidence can be faked, which means that you can fake being confident until the real thing comes along.
4. They don’t compare themselves to others
You know the cliche: “Comparison is the thief of joy.”
One of the most attractive things about a woman is her ability to accept herself and be comfortable in her own skin.
This means she doesn’t compare herself to others but focuses on being the best version of herself.
She knows that being beautiful is not just about having a slim body but also about kindness, intelligence, and other qualities that make us who we are.
She understands that there will always be someone prettier than her and someone less attractive than her, but she doesn’t let that get in the way of her confidence and self-esteem.
It can be hard to feel like you’re good enough in today’s world.
We’re surrounded by images of perfect bodies, perfect relationships, and perfect lives—and they all seem to be coming at us from every angle.
But an attractive woman makes an effort to focus on herself.
You’re setting yourself up for comparison anxiety when you compare yourself to others.
Because you can’t be your own person if you’re always worried about what other people are doing, wearing, and saying.
5. They maintain eye contact
Attractive women maintain eye contact.
Eye contact is a key component of attractiveness because it signals confidence, intelligence, and trustworthiness.
Do you want to be more attractive? Then maintain eye contact.
Eye contact is the perfect way to let someone know that you are interested in them and their thoughts.
When you look someone in the eye, they feel like they can trust you because it shows that you’re confident in yourself and your words.
6. They voice their opinions
The one thing that all attractive women have in common is that they voice their opinions.
They don’t hide their thoughts or hold back on their feelings, and they’re not afraid to come across as a little bit harsh if it means getting their point across.
They’re not afraid to be wrong, either—and they know that when you’re wrong, the only way to get better is to admit it.
That’s because attractive women are confident enough in themselves and their own opinions not to be bothered by criticism.
7. They look good but don’t obsess over their appearance
When you look good, you feel good. And when you feel good, you do great things.
Women who are attractive always know this, so they look good, BUT they don’t obsess over their appearance.
They know that beauty is only skin-deep, and looking good is more than just how you dress.
It’s how confident you are in your skin and how well you carry yourself.
That’s why they don’t obsess over their appearance—they’re too busy being awesome!
Once you start seeing yourself as beautiful from within, no one can make you feel ugly.
8. They are intelligent
Generally, intelligent people are more attractive, and you don’t have to be a genius to be smart.
Being intelligent means being able to learn new things and adapt quickly.
It also means having an interest in learning more about the world around you.
Intelligent women are attractive because they can do things.
They’re smart enough to make good decisions, they’re able to solve problems, and they understand what’s going on in the world around them.
Being intelligent makes a woman more attractive because it means she’s a good conversationalist.
She’ll be able to hold her own in a debate or discussion, which can be attractive when you’re trying to find someone who will challenge you intellectually.
If you want to be more intelligent, read books and articles on topics that interest you, so your mind expands and grows.
And you’ll learn new ideas and ways of thinking about the world around you, which leads to better problem-solving skills.
9. They embrace their imperfections
As women, we are taught from a young age to be perfect.
We’re told that we need to look and act a certain way in order to be considered attractive by society and men.
But what if I told you that this is actually holding you back?
Attractive women embrace their flaws and know that they are not perfect and don’t need to be.
They know that there is no such thing as perfection, and they are not going to spend their time trying to attain it.
Instead, they focus on being happy with themselves and the person they are becoming every single day.
When we’re not trying to be perfect, we can focus on the things that really matter—the things that make us who we are.
We can stop worrying about whether our teeth are straight or our waist is tiny enough and instead focus on our passions and our talents.
And when we do this, we become more confident and better able to live the life we want to live.
These nine habits will definitely make you a more attractive woman.
