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7 Clear Signs He Doesn’t Want a Relationship With You

7 Clear Signs He Doesn’t Want a Relationship With You

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While it can be sometimes obvious when a guy loves you and wants you to be his woman.

What about when a guy doesn’t want a relationship with you even if you’ve been together for a while?

How do you know if he wants to get serious with you by having a relationship with you and if he doesn’t?

Below are signs a guy doesn’t want a relationship with you:

7 Signs He Doesn’t Want a Relationship With You

  1. He doesn’t say, “I love you”

Signs He Doesn't Want a Relationship With You

If a guy loves you and wants to have a relationship with you, he’ll make it known through his actions and words.

But if the guy you’re dating doesn’t say “I love you,” it might be a sign that he’s not looking for a long-term relationship.

Of course, there are plenty of other reasons why someone might not say those three little words, but if it’s something he’s never said, it might mean you’re not the one he wants to say the magic words to.

This is especially true if you say them to him, but he never says them back.

And even if he does, you don’t miss his reluctance and hesitancy.

He could be afraid of commitment, or he might not be sure how he feels about you.

Whatever it is, it’s not looking good.

If he’s not ready to say “I love you,” then you need to decide if you’re okay with that or if you’re looking for something more.

 

2. He keeps you a secret from his family and friends

One of the biggest red flags that he doesn’t want a relationship with you is if he keeps you a secret from his family and friends.

He might say he’s not ready to introduce you to them yet, or that he’s afraid they won’t approve of you.

But the truth is, if he really wants to be with you, he’ll want to share your relationship with the people who matter most to him.

If he’s keeping you hidden away, it’s a sign that he knows you’re not THE ONE.

 

3. He never has time for you

Signs He Doesn't Want a Relationship With You

If a guy is looking to have a relationship with you, he’ll make you a priority.

No question.

Apart from enjoying being with you, he’ll want to please you by being very much present in your life.

But a guy who doesn’t want a relationship with you will always have an excuse for not seeing you.

He’s too busy at work, he has plans with his friends, he’s dealing with family stuff.

He always has reasons for not spending quality time with you or being available when you need him.

He only has time for you when he wants or when it’s most convenient for him.

He might be enjoying your company, but if he wanted something more serious, he would make time for you.

If he’s not willing to invest his time in getting to know you better, then probably because he doesn’t want to know you better because he’s got no long-term plans for ya.

 

4. He doesn’t ask you out on dates

Signs He Doesn't Want a Relationship With You

If a guy is interested in pursuing a relationship, he will make an effort to spend time with you one-on-one.

He’ll ask you out on dates, make plans in advance, and try to get to know you better.

On the other hand, if a guy isn’t interested in a relationship, he likely won’t bother trying to make plans with you.

He might cancel last minute, flake on plans, and generally keep things casual.

So if you’re wondering whether or not a guy is interested in a serious relationship, pay attention to how he treats you.

If he doesn’t ask you out on dates, it’s probably because he’s not interested in anything more than casual dating.

 

5. He’s still seeing other people

Signs He Doesn't Want a Relationship With You

This one is a huge sign you shouldn’t miss or ignore.

If a guy doesn’t want a relationship with you, he’d still be seeing other people.

He might say that he’s not ready for a relationship or that he’s just not looking for anything serious.

But if he’s still going on dates and meeting new people, it’s pretty clear that he’s not interested in settling down with you.

 

6. He says “I” instead of “we” in every situation

The way he talks about himself can be a big sign that he’s not interested in a relationship with you.

If he always uses “I” instead of “we” when referring to himself, it’s a good indication that he’s not ready to commit to anything serious.

He might be happy just living in the moment and enjoying your company, but he’s not thinking about a future with you.

This is something to keep an eye on if you’re looking for a more long-term relationship.

If he continues to use “I” instead of “we,” it could be a sign that he’s not ready to take things to the next level with you.

 

7. All he wants is sex

Signs He Doesn't Want a Relationship With You

He can’t wait to get you home and rip off your clothes.

He’s always suggesting dates that involve spending time in bed.

And when things start getting serious, he backs off.

You might think this is good news — until you realize he doesn’t want a relationship because he’s not ready to commit.

If all you do is sleep together without doing other things normal couples do in a relationship (go on dates, talk about the future, know each other’s family and friends), he might just be using you for your body.

 

If you want a relationship, but a guy doesn’t want the same, you should let him know your expectations so you know whether you are wasting your time or not.

I don’t know about you, but I won’t be with a guy who cannot give me what I want.

Better to get out before things get too deep and the hurt gets deeper.

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